Emotional Expectations in Relationship create (Choose yours):

Emotional Expectations in Relationship (E.E.R.) is something that any couple need to learn to avoid between them, so no negative behavior will be result of that. For both, E.E.R. only remove the positive level of good communication and ability to express better between each other the needs and the support that both can and able to share in a mutual positive way. When emotional expectations are becoming part of the individual thinking, you are not providing the grounding energy of the relationship to be connected with the center of the original connection that created the foundation of the relationship and there for, the Root Chakra of the couple is removed from its connection with the pure source that hold both as one, as united, in the same space of energy. When you learn to remove expectations you truly are able to find freedom in what you will be able to share in the relationship. This freedom will allow both to have a deeper trust and patience with each other, rather then questioning all the time with useless doubt of the other one behavior. When not holding any E.E.R, each one is able to move with the other with the Unconditional Love that is protected in each one Heart Chakra, as the center of each one energy, and the core of both Heart Chakra as one, and not evolving to stand against each other for no good reason. By letting go of E.E.R. you will learn to place healthy boundaries with in your personal behavior as well as healthy boundaries that will only respect your other half. Moving forward by removing any E.E.R, will allow for your actions to be recognize by the other person from a place that is not dependable on their level of expectations. Like that each one can be validate without any attachment or presumption by the other. The energy of your expectations will be focus on the good that can be for both of you and how each one can keep creating the space for the other to support the relationship. Don’t put the bar high for others if you want to have healthy relationships in any form: family, work, personal. After all, your personal standards are not equal to the other person, some of your goals cannot be met by the other person just because they are not there yet, your attention for details are not as the attention that the other person will try to provide. You create like that a very supportive healthy environment that hold less stress in any relationships you are involved with, and you becoming more positive with the ways of communicating and connecting with others. You give yourself the place to take the purity of who you are and to form from yourself the person that can share their life and activities in a very productive and positive way. Good personal work from time to time is to reflect on your personal emotions you hold in the relationship and to see for yourself how best to filter your emotions, or run your emotions through a colander, to remove anything that might be in your way, or in the way of both of you. That is how you tap into your inner wisdom and not reaching quickly to your knowledge or to your ego. Strong conviction for acting by the honest dedication to do the right thing when it seems so hard, but yet so right to do, will lead you both to trustworthy relationship.