How to find true happiness (Choose yours):

1.With a good bottle and big party.

2.By going inwards to un raveled it.

3.It is hard in this difficult life.

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There is a common basic connection for all of us regarding one goal that we all looking to have, to find, to share and that is happiness which belong to everyone and able to recognize similarities between each other life. As we communicate, even if the expectation from each other might be different, the pursue of happiness belong to each one and should be provide by each other for the other and not be achieved as a result of preventing or taking it away from someone. We strive in our life to be happy. We tend to use different things to elevate our mood. When happiness comes from within, independent and un attach, happiness has the aspect of our spiritual world. In the other hand, we use things like sex, alcohol, drugs and other things to bring what we think as joy, only to understand that those are temporary things that giving only pleasure. Where is pleasure depends on outside sources, happiness come from within , and the more you teach yourself the valuable way to provide yourself with self-love, then there will be love, that you can share unconditionally with someone else, as well as with the whole world. Nurture your self-love, just as you care for your garden, and you’ll have more then you know that you can offer your heart to someone from your pure happy place.
As we grow up and each one is facing the changes, we should be able to be easy with how we handle things that challenge our personal life, as those complex things has no immediate intention to be difficult but through the hard challenges, one can find their own personal realization for what kind of free good will stand within one self and to value the quality of what you can create and make with your life, with a sense of happiness that related to your heritage, and to connect it to how you can meet your happiness in this present life with no feeling of missing out, rather with the knowing of what more you can contribute and give, so others will join your dance of life with their own unique dace of happiness. This inward observation take you to the root of your true way to connect with the essence of what happiness mean and relevant for you and can be offer to be share with others.
One good way to understand for yourself what is the meaning of pure happiness that relevant to you is to look back at your grandparents or other generations of your ancestors, especially at times where that generation was facing a true difficult hard times, and yet during those hard times you can find stories on how your ancestors where able to find pure meaning of life, and with that the pure interpretation of what was the value of happiness and how it was able to keep your ancestors moving along with their life. That was a choice which that generation understood how to appreciate, especially during war time, time of depression or other challenging times. As there can be various ways to practice one happiness, remember to nourish it from a free place of your heart and not as a condition on something. Maintain it from your Heart center to teach your mind the capacity and the strength of what you can find within you, and belong to your heritage to continue and share with those that comes into your life. I offer you one way of many pure other ways to pursue your happiness. The choice is yours.