1.Doing what you feel to do.
2.Calculated steps and preparations.
3.Stop doing the things you used to do.
4. …………………………………………………………….
For each one there is a time, a moment, a desire to change the reality of their life because of various reasons or certain circumstances that have ben leading to that. Decision to stop doing past behavior require oneself commitment, which must be confronted with oneself old habits. In many cases its by starting to do it, but either it won’t last for long or it will only bring some unresolved issues from the past, as making a change must be in alignment with your willingness of letting go. A personal change is like promise promotion that rewords you with a result of upgrade your life with better meaningful life. A resolution to create a real change come by personal preparation for it, understanding where you are at and where you would like to find your life moving forwards. Having that personal work with the personal intention bring up your personal strength and self-worth for believing in yourself that you are not just worthy of that change, but you know that you deserve that.
A good meaningful change can happen by taking steps to reach to the destination of your true meaningful goal. A good measurable process is by creating a plan for the next 40 days, taking different steps during those 40 days, leading you towards the final step, which from there on you are going to be fully committed to your own words and not backing out for no reason. The number 40 in many aspects has a unique meaning for each one of us. It is not just a symbolic or mystic or spiritual number, but if you pay attention you will realize how it take part in your life more then you are aware of. 40 weeks are the number for a healthy pregnancy. 40 days in the fetus development the blood cells starting to form differentiate into various blood vessels (arteries, veins). Same number of 40 days are the days which a pregnant will have produce milk to feed. In the bible in many places the number 40 is mentioned. In the spiritual reality the number 40 hold its secret for renew and rebirth, cleansing and transformation. Each person reality is not a combination of unpredicted events or a result of an explosion from a “big bang”, rather the understanding that behind each action there was an event that lead to this circumstances of reality. However no one circumstances should or will define that person, as those only explain a moment in someone life. Each one has many options every day to engage with life, and by each one choices the next event will be for them to face or go through. The choices you make can be by an impulse or by a deep meaningful decision.
Therefore, planning a head during a period time for the next 40 days where you would like to start your next chapter require your commitment. At first you need to identify where you ask yourself to be and the steps to take you there. The first step is by shedding off anything that has been holding you back, like certain habits, heavy emotions which are no longer part of your life, thinking process that has not been supportive of your life, people that only care for themselves and never care to give or care for you. The next step must be in your personal place, your body and your home. You must review how your home is organize or if it is too cluttered, which reflect on the way you are caring for your body. As I shared before, your body is your main temple, so care to respect yourself from within which will shine to the outside as well. The next step is to understand better, to understand again and again your own self-love. Oneself personal growth can never be truly fulfill without oneself-love. By honoring yourself with self-love, you will care to understand the true meaning of the change that you would like to gain in your own personal transformation. After that step you are more connected with yourself and understanding that you are not running away from yourself. This will lead you to gain the next step that you know for yourself how it will gain you closer to the change you seek to maintain in your life.
Life takes many different seasons, and each season can never have resemblance to the same season. The quest one seek to embrace a change in their life is as creating a new branch in the tree of your life while with in it, you care to add the real piece of your life puzzle, as you learn more of what your pure Heart Center guide you to do. Moving forward with this intention will rewards you with what truly has been waiting for you all this time.